its upsetting writing this. My daughter is coming up to 11. She lives 3 hours away but I do my very best to see her. When I do see her it upsets me cause I feel like my ex has basically neglected a weight issue she has and now her hygiene. I brought up the issue of her weight just as it was starting to what I saw was a problem about 3 years ago. Both my ex and her parents have made me feel like the bad person overtime and they have completely ignored the issue to the point where even my daughter feels upset as the weight continues. And now she smells. She starts big school soon and I’m so scared about how other girls are going to treat her. I really don’t know what to do. Her mum won’t listen. I always try and advise my daughter but its stopping her wanting to see me.