I don’t know what I should do better – to be happy for you or to sympathize. I understand that the option of abortion in your family is not even considered, so I will not say anything about it. Of course, it would be great if you and your wife discussed in advance what you would do in this case. Or you could have a relationship where you can honestly tell your wife how you feel without judgment and together you can think about your next steps. Now you really need to support your wife with all your might because she is going through a major change for the third time in which you both took part.