When we are together he chooses what we do activities wise it’s not practical for us to do the TV thing as i don’t currently have my own place and being at his is hard as there’s 3 kids under 4 there too I give him dates but at work I’m on a relief contract so do easily 50 hours a week my shifts change all the time too which doesn’t help at all it’s frustrating my hours will go down for a bit now cos as I said I had training to do which was again long hours I also don’t have set days off it changes week to week his mum keeps saying I don’t see him cos I’m lazy which is crappy for him to hear cos I’m not at all the earliest I finish at night is 7pm he goes bed at 8 on a school night he also lives 1 hour away which is a pain