I came from mumsnet too after wrong assumptions were made by a couple of quite tenaciously vicious characters who seemed to have too much time on their hands to belittle something they hadn’t even tried to discover the details of beforehand. Judged before given a chance.
I’m glad to welcome you, as a new member myself to what I hope, is a friendly and supportive place to express yourself and gain suitable advice should you need it.
There’s WOKE and there’s WOKE. I consider myself WOKE in that I am aware and understanding of social injustices, but I won’t attempt to impose my own personal beliefs on others – I would rather understand and help if I can.