I had mine at the age of 35 after 6 wonderful children! All was well (a little tender) until my 2 year old ran straight into my…… post operative area! I had unbearable pain for a week, and it calmed, wearing the small underpants offered some relief, I was advised to wear them for 3 days but carried on for 2 weeks!! As for the post vasectomy marital activities, back to normal after a month! Have been since 😉 if anything it’s been life changing in more ways than 1!