Don’t know how to deal with my situation

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      So back in October me and my wife split up due to various issues, we have a little girl and things had been getting on top of us we had made a new friendship with a couple. At first it was nice we all got on but there was something I did not like about the male he was very egotistical and thought he was the bees knees. We all went out had chats and got on, but he started to get very close to my wife and I did not like it. It almost made me feel pushed out and lonely I started to feel like I was loosing my wife and that she could have been having an affair.

      I confronted her about it and she said that he was a friend and that they were like siblings. I could not get it out my head and eventually we broke up as in separated. At this point I was adamant that he was after her and wanted a bit of her. Things got very hard and we did not really speak much.there were lots of things said and lots of questions raised.

      Moving on and at tge beginning of this month she has told me that whilst separated she did sleep with him and more than once. She has told me the last time was back in January and she hates what she has done and wants us to fix our marriage. I love her so much and I really want to but I have so much going on in my head.

      All that keeps going through mybhead is him and her I try to get it out but it keeps coming back and it hurts so bad that I had this scumbag sussed from the start. I deal with it but I am struggling so bad.

      What would any of you do and how would you get past it ?

    • #209142

      What does your heart and head say? What does your gut say?

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