Hi there. My 11 year old son spends every night at mine. He spends about 6 hours on a Monday with his mum. He was also spending 6 hours on a Wednesday as well but he had a meltdown and doesn’t go, only on a Monday. She gets all of his benefits plus disability for him but will not pass any onto me. In the pass I have applied for his benefits in to my name but then she keeps our son at hers till the benefits get paid back into her name!!!!! What can I do. Social services have said take her to court but I can not afford to.