So I work long hours and by the time I get home I’ve done a 13 hour day. We have a daughter aged 22 from another marriage who stays with her dad now and again but lives with us most days of the week. My wife has a stressful job and with everything going on we barley get time to ourselves. She will not have sex when our daughter is in the house as she gets embarrassed so it’s tough on us both. I can home the other night to find my wife dressed in sexy night wear and really made the effort but I was so tired nothing happened.
I felt so bad she had put so much effort in and I could not perform. She said is it her which it’s not but me not performing in the bedroom is putting stress on me and making her feel unwanted…any advice please.