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Yeah it will after my training is done with which they both know about I won’t need to do all the extra hours
I fully get that kids need time I tell him things I’m planning to do and when I can’t make other people act right I know that he tells me conversations he’s heard about me which pisses me off especially when I’ve told my ex about it before I fully appreciate your replies Pete and you genuinely don’t know how much they have helped
We have plans for cinema for avengers end game when I get paid, I get 1 in 6 weekends off I take him museum cos he really likes it we play Pokémon go together that’s out big thing together usually now it’s warmer weather annual leave is different as I have to gain it first and I’m using that near his birthday as I’m gonna be looking after him as his mum’s away I’m teaching him football cos it’s something he asked me to do as well it’s hard cos even though he decides what we do and we have fun, laugh and such he seems to keep going back to his mum and saying he hates it etc… That’s the most hurtful thing about it and also to that my ex is trying to play my sister’s against me as well by making out I’m not bothering which causes me crap and drama from them and it’s starting to affect me we literally had a conversation to do with this stuff then next minute she’s bad mouthing me to my sister’s and they start having a go as well
When we are together he chooses what we do activities wise it’s not practical for us to do the TV thing as i don’t currently have my own place and being at his is hard as there’s 3 kids under 4 there too I give him dates but at work I’m on a relief contract so do easily 50 hours a week my shifts change all the time too which doesn’t help at all it’s frustrating my hours will go down for a bit now cos as I said I had training to do which was again long hours I also don’t have set days off it changes week to week his mum keeps saying I don’t see him cos I’m lazy which is crappy for him to hear cos I’m not at all the earliest I finish at night is 7pm he goes bed at 8 on a school night he also lives 1 hour away which is a pain
