DDP1268 replied to the topic non molestation order which was ordered without my knowing and is malicious in in the forum The DadsNet Forum 6 months, 1 week ago
Sent you friend request which will presumably let me send you a PM
Not really advice but my experience and my opinion is this.
For years I have totally compromised my home arrangements and jobs in order to be like clockwork for the contact time that I have scheduled.
Sometimes the logistics of making that happen were a nightmare… inconvenient and expensive… sometimes nearly impossible.
I don’t regret any…[Read more]
DDP1268 started the topic What is going on with that "2nd class citizen post" in the forum The DadsNet Forum 7 months, 1 week ago
Can anyone explain what has happened with that forum post “2nd class citizen”?
Compared to other posts on here it seems to have been shared more extensively, it actually looks like internationally.
It also looks like it as been hacked or the response otherwise spammed?
Sorry for a late reply.
When I read your post the main thing I took from it was that it reads that your wife is being affected by depression.
I didn’t really fully understand depression and what it can do. From my understanding and experience its maybe responsible and definitely one of the biggest factors in almost everything you…[Read more]
I’ve been a member on here for ages.
I should have replied to lots of these posts. I’m not an expert or a lawyer but I’v been through a lot of this and the least you can do is make sure people feel like someone is listening.
Mumsnet isn’t necessarily a good thing. You only need to peep at their threads to see they generally go something like…[Read more]
DDP1268 replied to the topic Advice from both separated dads and those who repaired their relationship in the forum The DadsNet Forum 1 year, 5 months ago
It doesn’t say if you are married…I have assumed so. If not some of this doesn’t apply..you’d be in a grey area.
Everyone would hope that your relationship would recover, there are much better people than me to post words of encouragement and tips. Counselling, help, negotiation etc these are all massively good things and should be at…[Read more]
Is there a ‘direct message’ process on here? I have an almost comparable situation…but about 2yrs down the chain of woe.
I appreciate that comments above don’t contribute much to the general thread….sorry!!
In my experience/opinion, where there is an acrimonious breakup OP would be absolutely right to minimise chance of…[Read more]
Here are a few thoughts
I think blokes normally talk on forums about football and cars, I don’t think a blokes children site would ever catch fire like mumsnet but I do think its really important that this exists. I do like reading the day to day stuff.
I read up on forums to try and deal with the negative aspects of being a dad that I…[Read more]
DDP1268 replied to the topic CMS question: what if one parent frustrates contact ordered by a court (UK)? in the forum Off Topic 1 year, 8 months ago
I agree about the separate forum section.
I like the ‘positive’ approach of this website but people will normally come to a site like this when they want to talk about something and its better if it has a clear place to sit.
I would suggest sections (noting the first two are separate issues in court)
Divorce – Finance
Divorce -…[Read more]
I’m “DDP1268”, sorry for such a rubbish tag but if I am to get stuck into any discussions here I need to be anonymous, and using a false name didn’t feel right!
I’m the dad of a lovely boy. It was good to see this website, I’ll have a good rummage and read some of the backposts.
I have no idea where DDP1268 came from. It sounds…[Read more]