I don’t think that logic and the CSA belong in the same sentence.
I speak only as someone that has listened to tails of woe from friends.
I would ask why you need to tell them anything as I can’t see what would change as she would be spending the same time at the different houses.
I suppose you would have to continue to pay £180 but if her Mum…[Read more]
I don’t have any personal experience of this but the previous posters have made good comments.
I’d underline that the child needs to know that he was not “abandoned” and contact could be made if wanted.
Then the choice is down to him.
I didn’t know that the birth certificate would not have the fathers name on it, this seems wrong as obviously…[Read more]
See if you can have a “moan” at any of your friends/ family as they’ll help remind you of who you really are.
Tough place to be with a child involved too, you’ve made the first step though admitting you’re finding it hard to cope.
Hi I’m Jo
Father of 6 year old twins.
Live in the midlands.
Keeping it a bit vague so I can be truly honest.
Have used Mumsnet in the past for tips and advice, good to see this started. How long has it been running?