• I don’t doubt it and I do understand, the past few years have been complicated and stressful for me, but the past year or so things have fallen into place with some determination and communication, I hope you get there too. I’m sure you already remind her that inappropriate conversations are harmful to your son emotionally, that him seeing you…[Read more]

  • Well it sounds like you’re already doing all you can for your son, I guess it’s more about getting the other adults to behave like adults! I know how complicated that can be, all I would say is continue being the reasonable one and keep at the angle of what’s best for your son when challenging them as diplomatically as you can. Don’t know what…[Read more]

  • That sounds tough, but whatever your days off, though they may vary, you can at least plan to spend time with him when possible? Maybe if watching TV isn’t possible, what about the cinema? I don’t know what I would do, but some kind of plan written down might help. Do you get many weekends off? How about annual leave? Maybe if you are able, a few…[Read more]

  • It’s understandable that he’ll feel this way with the changes you’ve described and he’ll be looking to you to be the constant in his life. I know how tough it is trying to spread yourself everywhere you need to be and eventually something has got to give. I’m not sure what to advise, but in my case, I went from a full time reasonably well paid job…[Read more]