How Reading to Your Baby is as Important as Feeding & Sleeping

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Do you find time to read to your baby?

I’ll assume that you do find time to feed your baby and find time to allow your baby to sleep… But do you find time to read to your baby?

Reading to your baby is arguably as important as your baby’s feeding and sleeping. Even before your baby is born, reading to your baby in the womb makes a lot of sense! They get used to your voice way before they grace us with their presence.

Reading to your baby helps build vocabulary, imagination and communication skills. Not only this but it obviously gives your baby a head start into the world of letters, numbers, stories, colours.

Sharing a book together can help create a strong bond between you and your baby. It’s a calming activity where your entire focus is on the baby; just what they want. Through the process of reading, your baby is hearing your voice and responding to it. This helps them develop their language skills from the word go. Surrounding them with the rhythm and sounds of speech is crucial to a baby’s development. There’s been plenty of research into this! I try to vary the pitch of my voice and volume to make it interesting and add to the experience.

We found a great website with 10 reasons why reading to your baby is such a good thing to do. Click here to read the full article, but our top 3 reasons why reading is important were these:

#1 It helps build a strong bond

#2 It helps basic speech skills from an early age

#3 It helps improve a baby’s communication skills

We’ve found that some of the best books are books with things to feel and touch. Books like this: Baby’s Very First Touchy-feely Book (Usborne Touchy Feely Books) add another sense for your baby to experience. I was amazed when I first read to the boy and showed him the fluffy bits, the rough bits and the ‘lift up flaps;’ he really engaged with them.

In essence, reading to your baby is exactly the same as speaking to your baby. To improve all the things I stated above, babies need to be surrounded by words. Books are the best way to do this! It helps avoid feeling like a wally too! Talking to your baby about general life can feel pretty dumb to begin with!

This is a quick video of me reading to the boy. It’s a touchy feely book, and you can see how engaged he is with it. I’m not saying this is a model that you should definitely replicate, but what I found amazing was that when I am in the middle of reading, I don’t realise that he is responding like he does in this video. Looking from the outside in on something so ordinary, like reading, allows you see it in a totally different way. This video showed me just how much the boy enjoyed reading with me and how much he engaged with it. That makes me want to do it more. Try videoing yourself reading to your baby and watch it back.

Do you read to your baby? What’s your favourite books to read? It’d be great to compile some kind of library so we can all use it to get some good books!

A classic book you will probably want to buy:
The Very Hungry Caterpillar [Board Book]

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  1. Bradley Grimes

    I usually only get about halfway through a board book with my son before he takes it from me and starts playing with it, but we try!

  2. Mathew Lajoie

    Great post! Reading is important in our home. It has been part of our daily routine since our son was born and it is something he looks forward to everyday. It started with sensory books and then onto nursery rhymes and short stories. Recently we graduated to novels and we’re learning about descriptive words and a few literary devices. Thank you for sharing.

  3. Emma

    I couldn’t agree more! A day without reading is an incomplete day no matter how young or old you are. Beth absolutely loves her books and picks them over any toy when given a choice. “Giraffes Can’t Dance” is her all-time favourite! She also loves “That’s Not My Dinosaur” – so much so it’s taped together from all the gob and chewing it’s been through. Here’s to little bookworms!

    • Al Ferguson

      Oh, I’ll go and check those ones out!

  4. cambrila

    My baby is 5weeks old, due to late milk production for a week and due to mastitis I have gone through minor breast surgery, my baby was fed on lactogen supplement with a bottle. Also I have pumped my milk n provided him with a bottle. After a month I started feeding him breastfeed, but he refuses all the time. Not even he feed for 3mins each breast. I change to next breast when he refuses, but still he refuses. Sometimes at night he fed on breast while sleeping, for 15mins, later he spits out the milk. Dear lactation experts please suggest me and do needful. – See more at:

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